Designed for Desire

How much does it cost? And how long will it take? I’m answering the two questions I’m asked most often and sharing the fucking numbers!!! We’re talking million-dollar retainers, multi-million-dollar design fees, wild ideas, years-long timelines, and why fluffing pillows is only 2 days of a 1,825-day project. You may want to sit down for this one.
Money, investment, costs, and time shouldn’t be such a mystery. Whether you’re dreaming of a one-of-a-kind kinky dream home, just curious about the answers, or a fellow designer or creative, let’s talk about what it realistically takes to create the beautiful homes that we do.
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What if your home isn’t the problem…it’s that it was never designed for you in the first place?
In this episode, I’m diving into renovation vs luxury new construction, why most homes quietly work against your lifestyle, and what happens when you design a home around intimacy, pleasure, and how you actually live.
We’re talking secret hallways, five-person showers, voyeur views, and why adding a playroom isn’t enough.
Plus, the future of this design niche, why kink and interior design have been having completely separate conversations, and why that’s about to change.
And I'm discussing why your bedroom is probably the worst designed room in your house. If your bedroom is an afterthought, your intimacy becomes one too.
 
Website: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitewavedesign/
 

This week’s Q&A goes straight into the questions people are curious about but rarely ask out loud: my personal boundaries around kinks and preferences, why I don’t need to share my sex life to design powerfully for yours, what embarrassment really looks like in intimate design conversations, what I actually mean by “access to your lifestyle,” and what happens when a contractor sees the St. Andrew’s Cross. We talk privacy, discretion, kink-aware not kink-identical, and why professionalism, not oversharing, is what makes erotic and identity-driven homes possible.
 
Website: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitewavedesign/
 

This bonus episode is about clarity. About who I work with, who I design for, and why long-term, committed relationships matter in the work I do. It’s a conversation about representation, discretion, and creating homes that reflect identity, intimacy, and truth. A reminder that home can hold what the world sometimes cannot. If you’ve ever wondered whether your relationship, your dynamic, or your privacy would be respected here, this episode is for you.
 
Website: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitewavedesign/
 

In this Q&A, I’m answering four juicy questions you sent in about ideal clients, saying no, whether kink makes homes more expensive, and how much control clients actually have. I don’t know the intention behind any of the questions, so naturally I gave multiple answers and went on several delightful tangents.
If you’re curious about what this work looks like behind the scenes, how I decide who I work with, what makes a kinky home cost what it costs, or why surrender is a design requirement… this episode is for you.
Let’s see how this experiment goes. It may never see the light of day. I posted it…so I guess it’s staying, lol
 
Website: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitewavedesign/
 

In this episode I take you inside Lucian and Patrick’s world, an age gap romance between a Leather Daddy and his mischievous pup, and the Harley inspired playroom / motorcycle shop I designed for their BDSM lifestyle.
We talk about their 24/7 D/s dynamic, why burgundy and leather feel like home, and how a fully functioning shop becomes a sensual, kink ready space with bootblacking, puppy play, watersports, and a milking table built right into the architecture. If you have ever wondered what it might be like to design a house around desire, this one is for you.
 
Inspiration Images and Full Episode: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/post/ep5-desire-file-live-to-ride
 
Website: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitewavedesign/
 

This episode is an intimate look at what happens when you sit across from me and tell the truth about your kinky sex life. Not the watered down version, not the PG version, but the way you live and lead inside a devoted D/s dynamic. We talk about rituals, roles, power exchange, and what it feels like to bring those private parts of your relationship into the open so I can design a home built for pleasure, intimacy, and the way your bodies move through space. This is not something you would share with just any designer. This is you, here with me.
We explore the moment you arrive, how your dominance shows up in the room, how your submissive softens beside you, the subtle body language I pay attention to, and why this conversation can feel terrifying even when you are confident in your sex life. You are not here for generic luxury with a dungeon slapped on as an afterthought. You are here because you want a home that honours your dynamic. Your erotic life is not a side note. It is the conversation.
 
Website: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitewavedesign/
 

In this episode of Designed for Desire, I share the reasons this podcast exists and what led me to finally create it. It’s a story about honesty, loneliness, and the need for connection. I talk about finding my voice again, breaking free from censorship, and the courage it takes to be seen for who we really are. This episode explores what it means to create from truth rather than fear, to design from desire rather than expectation. Through reflections, storytelling, and a peek into one of my fictional love stories, Smoke & Mirrors, I invite you into the intimate space where pleasure, art, and identity meet. It’s raw, real, and a little rebellious. An open journal entry about why this work, and why this conversation, matters.
 
Website: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitewavedesign/
 

This week, we’re diving into The Discovery Call, the very first step toward designing your sexy ass love nest. This is where curiosity meets clarity, where money, timeline, and trust take center stage. I’ll walk you through what actually happens during this one-of-a-kind call: what I ask, what I listen for, and how I know when we’ve got that undeniable spark. Think of it as foreplay for your forever fantasy, a candid, funny, and unfiltered look at how luxury design begins.
The Discovery Call isn’t a sales pitch; it’s the start of a relationship built on honesty, discretion, and desire. I’ll share how I prepare before we talk, what happens behind the scenes, and why privacy, boundaries, and chemistry matter just as much as budgets and blueprints. Whether you’re dreaming of a dungeon, a decadent retreat, or a home that celebrates every side of your pleasure, this episode pulls back the curtain on what it really takes to start.

In this debut episode of Designed for Desire, I take you inside the world of erotic interiors for badass soulmates. Together, we explore what it really means to design a home for pleasure, intimacy, and sex. From the language you use in your dynamic to the rituals that ground your daily life, this conversation unveils how your desires shape your space.
I share how I design luxury new construction and full-scale renovations that celebrate your kink, fetish, and BDSM lifestyle, while still honouring function, comfort, and beauty. We talk about trust, boundaries, privacy, and what happens when fantasy becomes architecture. This episode is for the confident, the curious, and the unapologetically bold! Those ready to make their home a living reflection of love, lust, and devotion.
Website: https://www.whitewavedesign.ca/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitewavedesign/